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Selfishness is not just making a fake excuse to get ahead in the queue, relying on a loved one to make that much-awaited cup of coffee or prioritizing your comforts(these are just some of the instances that come to mind at the moment).
 You are being selfish when you confess an act you are guilty of, to someone else. You prevented bursting at the seams by getting that weight off your chest. And now the impetus is on the listener to help you make the right judgement.
You are being selfish when you refuse to pick up that call from your parents when you are hanging out with your newfound friends.
So many other actions that don't scream selflessness either.
It amazes me to what elemental levels selfishness seeps.

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