After a certain age, different for every person, every individual is ready to accept another person into their space. Of course, even as a 16-year old we might be deluded into believing that we are mentally and physically prepared to take that leap. But that is not what I propose to talk about here.This intimacy(in the broad sense of the term) between man and woman is necessary for the seasoning for anyone's mind. It chisels the rough edges in our behaviour. All of us have noticed how suddenly everything seems brighter when we feel loved and cared for. Nothing could go wrong for us in those times. Even the staunch pessimist could brush away troubles which they would have normally made a fuss over, I imagine. No one wants to invite pain upon themselves, but the question is, do you want to end up being a bitter old soul, scowling at every other couple (young or old) and bawling your heart out afterwards, when no one is watching?
I do not imply the age-old notions that every individual must get married and "settle down" after so-and-so age. No, not at all. That is an absolutely subjective decision, or should be. It depends upon a person's experiences and resultant outlook on life. All views expressed here are borne of my own limited exposure, so bear with me.